New Relationships: Trust Issues and the Psycho Bitch

So you’re in a relationship and suddenly the world is brighter more beautiful and it seems that the sun is always shining- even in monsoon weather.
You love spending time together, chatting, sharing secrets and future ambitions. Yet like any person that’s ‘lived a little’, you’ve been down this road once or twice and naturally can’t help thinking - how long will this last?
Previously screwed over and played like a harp from hell, consequently results in a few trust issues with your seemingly ever devoted new partner.

After numerous hours of sanity testing contemplation, it is an inevitable thought to wonder – how long until the psycho bitch comes out to play?
We’ve all seen the psycho bitch in action before and we all know it’s not always gender specific (there are psycho dumbasses too).
They are the partner that says, “No! You can’t go out with your mates; you have to spend time with me.” Or the famous, “who was she and why were you starring at her tits?”
Answering the questions of a psycho bitch is a huge challenge for the other party and unfortunately “I like tits”, no matter how true or fair the comment usually leaves you celibate for a few days (or weeks).

Historically the psycho bitch came about at the dawn of time when a caveman would bash other non partnered cavewoman over the head with a very large club; resulting in the insecure cavewoman’s rage at her partners wondering uni browed eye, and eventual slaughter of the entire tribe.
Jealousy really is killer; even smart insecure business women can feel the cold pinch of jealousy now and again.

Narrowing down individual reasons for why the psycho bitch may rear her ugly head are too numerous to cover in one entry...however! Sometimes he or she simply remembers her former slutty single self and that is enough to put any individual on high alert... or any couple on high risk status.

Here’s one thing that can help. Don’t say “I love you” six weeks or so in. Why? Because you probably don’t mean it and even if you do, you are putting too much pressure on a new fragile thing; how old are you? 16!
Plus, it’s highly unlikely that you don’t fully trust this person so soon in and without trust there is no love.

Still a sceptic of the psycho making bitch theory? Let’s use our old friend Facebook as an example of fact. How many young people do you see confessing their love to a new partner only a few weeks in over the news feed, only to witness their public pain and despair, when the following week they are single and “hate” him/her.
I’m not saying if you feel the words bubbling up and about to burst out, push them down and ignore every thundering fast beat your heart makes. Just be careful about offering something to someone that might take it and machete it to ribbons. Resulting in the worst psycho bitch of all, the desperate lonely single psycho bitch, that preys on the happiness of new romance!