Let’s get the record straight, I’m not talking about Twilight, nor am I talking about Blade or any of the movies you have seen on the screen. I’m talking about real vampires, psychic vampires or ‘human’ vampires.
Ok, so now I’m sounding a little crazy, but I ask you this. Do you know someone who does any of the following: wastes your time, drains your energy, feeds off your life force in a negative way, pays unhealthy amounts of unwanted attention to you or treats you like a piece of meat?
Well guess what, that’s a human vampire. Unfortunately, they aren’t as easy to dispatch like the ones you know in the movies, they walk in sunlight, wear silver, eat garlic and don’t burst into a cloud of dust if you stake them in heart (not that I recommend trying anyway).
Yeah, they perhaps won’t literally drink you dry, but these particular types of ‘humans’ are still engulfed in a dark aura that will ultimately bring you down.
Here’s some ways of dealing with them. Of course if you have a harassment case on your hands I would recommend a good solicitor and a safe house, this on the other hand is focusing completely on mental health.
Unfortunately I have had to deal with all of the above on countless occasions and I’m sure if you’ve made it through this far, you have too.
The simplest advice is to cut contact, try and ignore any connection they may try and make with you, even if they are literally sitting opposite you.
Think positively and surround yourself with real people, not leeches. If you have experience with these people, you should be able to spot them, but they do come in all shapes and forms. Some are turn coats, the others cunning, some are so obvious you don’t have exchange two words to get their measure, question everyone, in these modern times there’s nothing wrong with being a sceptic.
If possible don’t be distracted by their misdirection, often these kinds of ‘people’ hunt in packs, preying on what they perceive to be the weak and vulnerable or in some cases the ones that have power, why? Because they want it!
Misdirection can mean anything from idle gossip, foes acting as friends, mocking/mimicking/impersonation, physical movement or in the worst case scenario- physical attack. This will as always be accompanied by a series of well thought out lies or dumb pathetic ones.
Again, keeping real friends close can help protect you from this kind of harm (obviously).
What some of the ‘vampires’ don’t realise is whilst they are trying to mentally and physically drain you, they are in effect doing the same to themselves, your reaction feeds them and the more you react the more they feed.
After awhile, lack of reaction means that the drained attacker will retreat and potentially move onto their next victim, however I unfortunately can’t give you a length of time as in some cases if one can’t do it, they recruit other like minded minions to help.
From what information can be gathered these types of humans have had some sort of traumatic background, either they were bullied in adolescent and haven’t let the past go, they have some form of mental condition that they aren’t aware of, they are doing it because their friends are doing it perhaps needing some form of acceptance- usually triggered from past rejection, they are deeply insecure individuals or they are just soulless freaks that need to get a life.
This is why they have to be ignored, because can you really be certain you know which category they fall into?
All you need to know is you have attracted them to you somehow and they are ones that are attached to you, your focus should be to detach from them. If reaction is necessary tread with caution, but focus on the leader, they are soul carrier of this strange disease, diminish the carrier, diminish the problem!
Sunday 19 December 2010
Gingerology
“Ok, so I have red hair. What’s the big deal?”
That sentence, dear readers is one self respecting redheads have been asking themselves since the dawn of time. Yet, like a misunderstood gay or faith filled Christian, we inevitably come across a scenario where we are cast out of average society and placed into isolation and shunned for how we were born.
That last paragraph could be perceived that I was referring the common world as Nazis...E.g. we must all conform and obey; dressed like cattle for the inevitable slaughter.
So, in theory what some people are suggesting is that we ‘gingers’ as it is politically and incorrectly said, should dye our hair either brown or yellow simply to avoid one form of trivial harassment?
After years of static research I have taken it onto myself to ask the question, “Why?”, every time somebody decides to mock me for my red roots. No one has ever given me an answer... Or a real answer anyway. Most of the time I get things like, “because you’re weird,” or simply “I dunno I just don’t like it.” Half of it I write up as bullshit and leave it at that.
Napoleon, Richard the Lionheart, Elizabeth 1st, Thomas Jefferson, Venus (Roman Goddess of Love), The Wright Brothers and Christopher Columbus. Any of these mean anything to you? Well guess what, they were all firey redheads. Warriors, Gods, geniuses and infamous leaders; awesome to say the least. That and European red heads are known to be descendent from Celts...need I say more?!
I’m not surprised that we red heads have been feared for well over a millennia and to this day are still seen as mysterious and a little odd. Of course back in the day we would have also been buried or burnt alive for having hell fire hair and relations with the devil. Records have even shown that some cultures even believed red hair was unlucky and would kill persons who bared its mark, to ward off the bad luck. Extreme? Well standards haven’t improved much today, even though we are now in 2010. Super intelligent human race? My arse!
I suppose, the people that brutally murdered those poor misunderstood creatures had good reasons for their torture and killing, they were smart enough to deduce that red heads could very well take over the world (See above to be reminded why).
Perhaps subconsciously, generation after generation who do not wish to be led by the red revolution, have allowed themselves to keep the hatred of their ancestors from many years ago?
Or perhaps, it’s because nobody wants to blend into the background and you are getting sick of us ginger mother fuckers stealing the lime light?
Either way, in order to move out of the caveman mind set, you must understand that everyone is different and special in their own way. Redheads even more so ;-)
That sentence, dear readers is one self respecting redheads have been asking themselves since the dawn of time. Yet, like a misunderstood gay or faith filled Christian, we inevitably come across a scenario where we are cast out of average society and placed into isolation and shunned for how we were born.
That last paragraph could be perceived that I was referring the common world as Nazis...E.g. we must all conform and obey; dressed like cattle for the inevitable slaughter.
So, in theory what some people are suggesting is that we ‘gingers’ as it is politically and incorrectly said, should dye our hair either brown or yellow simply to avoid one form of trivial harassment?
After years of static research I have taken it onto myself to ask the question, “Why?”, every time somebody decides to mock me for my red roots. No one has ever given me an answer... Or a real answer anyway. Most of the time I get things like, “because you’re weird,” or simply “I dunno I just don’t like it.” Half of it I write up as bullshit and leave it at that.
Napoleon, Richard the Lionheart, Elizabeth 1st, Thomas Jefferson, Venus (Roman Goddess of Love), The Wright Brothers and Christopher Columbus. Any of these mean anything to you? Well guess what, they were all firey redheads. Warriors, Gods, geniuses and infamous leaders; awesome to say the least. That and European red heads are known to be descendent from Celts...need I say more?!
I’m not surprised that we red heads have been feared for well over a millennia and to this day are still seen as mysterious and a little odd. Of course back in the day we would have also been buried or burnt alive for having hell fire hair and relations with the devil. Records have even shown that some cultures even believed red hair was unlucky and would kill persons who bared its mark, to ward off the bad luck. Extreme? Well standards haven’t improved much today, even though we are now in 2010. Super intelligent human race? My arse!
I suppose, the people that brutally murdered those poor misunderstood creatures had good reasons for their torture and killing, they were smart enough to deduce that red heads could very well take over the world (See above to be reminded why).
Perhaps subconsciously, generation after generation who do not wish to be led by the red revolution, have allowed themselves to keep the hatred of their ancestors from many years ago?
Or perhaps, it’s because nobody wants to blend into the background and you are getting sick of us ginger mother fuckers stealing the lime light?
Either way, in order to move out of the caveman mind set, you must understand that everyone is different and special in their own way. Redheads even more so ;-)
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